What is the most daring thing you’ve ever done to your hair?

August 24, 2012 in Tips and Stories

My hair has “done it” all. Chances are, if you said you’ve dyed your hair green, my hair will respond with been there, done that. Okay, I’ve actually never colored my hair in any way considered to be radical. But it has been processed in so many different ways…it’s scary.

hair dareI’d say the most daring thing I’ve ever done to my hair was giving myself a 1990′s boys cut back in 2003. It made me feel better at the time. It was one of those things you just have to do to make you feel better. The hair grew back evidently, but trying to style it while it was super short wasn’t fun at all!

 

Anyway, I’d love to hear what’s been the “craziest” thing everyone’s done to their hair, for or no reason. Free to leave a comment, all!

How Do You Style Your Hair On Rainy Days?

April 13, 2012 in Tips and Stories

It’s been raining quite a lot lately in Europe. I love rainy days…if I get to watch from inside my place, under my blanket. But rain on-the-go is not fun when your hair reacts to sky-fallen water on a fierce unnatural way.

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Imagine stepping out of the house and walking into a major storm. That’s exactly what happened to me the other day, when I left for work and didn’t check the weather. I was all bummed. It didn’t help that I can’t even hear the rain from a third floor, even when it pours. I didn’t grab an umbrella and did not have time to go back up to get one. So I wrapped my scarf around and over my head and ran two blocks to the car.

In Spain, women for the most part always look very polished, even when it rains. I’d like to be able to do that, to have “waterproof” hair. So I figured it out: always check the weather, buy a raincoat and umbrella (and use it, don’t store it), and style your hair in a bun or ponytail. Problem solved for rainy days.

At least for women like me, with easily-frizzy hair, a ponytail or a bun is the way to go.

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Luckily, my hair was fixed in a bun. It was a little higher up than that in the picture and I had applied some mousse to help it keep in place. The bun saved me from what could’ve been a major bad hair day at work.

Other ways in which frizzy-haired girls on-the-go can style their hair are curls, braids, or wear a handkerchief over the hair and slightly tie it at the neckline (think vintage!). Flat-ironing and relaxers are also an option to smooth it out, though a bit extreme to just avoid frizz. If hair is already styled and is out, just wear a hat. Hats are a big help for keeping frizzy hair from growing even bigger with the touch of a drop.

Speaking of which, I saw a plastic bag/hat somewhere that is “designed” specifically for this purpose. It gets the job done, but it may not look as vintage and glamorous if fabulousness is a concern.

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It will be raining some more here today, and possibly the rest of the month, so excuse me while I go dive in my closet to find the best suited hat.

What’s Your Take on Going Shampoo-Free?

April 5, 2012 in Shampoos, Tips and Stories

So much is being said about going shampoo-free. It is “healthier” and money-saving, they say. But there seems to be a bit of skepticism about the end-results also. Among the skeptical: me!

First of all, just like me, some people think this method is kinda “gross” and won’t consider cleaning their hair with anything other shampoo. Others consider the possibility of “harmful” detergents like shampoos to be just fables. And finally, there’s a whole group that challenges all of the above, highlighting reasons such as “scientific proof” that it is safer and less expensive.

More economical? Definitely. Healthier? Maybe. But my deal is that “poo-free” is not an option for a lot of us. It’s not that I doubt apple cider, vinegar and baking soda will clean my hair; it’s that  I know for fact that my hair will turn into something never seen before, something like a ball of hay trying to escape my head.

Example of a ball of hay trying to escape

Example of a ball of hay trying to escape

I don’t even want to imagine how much struggle I’d be going through every day trying to manage my hair if I take shampoo out of the basket. My mom used to wash my hair with some kind of “natural” soap when I was little — soap! — and, though it was clean, it really didn’t go too well with my hair. There was no moisture, so my hair grew bigger and bigger if let out.

Even now when I rinse out the conditioner completely and let it air-dry, my hair takes new heights, literally. Hey, I wouldn’t mind the look now (I actually like it!) if it wasn’t for it getting so tangled up that I then require another hour just to detangle it, which usually leads to massive breakage and brittle hair.

For my hair to behave in a way that would actually make me want to style it, I have to use a high-moisture shampoo and conditioner, preferably a leave-in conditioner. Otherwise, it is dry and stubborn. After a few days the oils may set in, but by that time my hair is dirty and ready for the next wash. So, no can do.

I believe people with fine to medium hair would benefit more from eliminating shampoo. Their hair already barely require any styling products at all. Maybe an option to check out?

Here’s a cool article that talks about it: What to Expect if You Kick Shampoo to The Curb

To better hair days!

How to lighten your hair with vinegar

March 25, 2012 in Home Treatments, Tips and Stories

Last time, I posted information about a website that promoted “shampoo free” wash and suggested vinegar as one of the alternatives to shampoo. I kept researching about that and it looks like a lot of people are actually promoting this technique. Poo-free sounds logical since shampoo wasn’t always around. But what I really wanted to try was vinegar to lighten my hair.

As you may already know, one of the many benefits of vinegar is that it detangles and clarifies the hair. It can also remove buildup and return your hair to its natural state. I usually color my hair blonde, so vinegar sounded like a good way to lighten it up between retouches.

Most sites I read suggested apple cider vinegar, but right now I am living in Spain and have no idea where I can get that—or if it even exists here. The only kind I could get a hold of was white wine vinegar, which still works and in my opinion it’s better because of its lower acidity.

They say you should mix the vinegar with lemon juice for lighter results and leave it on for about 10-20 minutes. Well, I have an ugly trait called impatience. So this is how I did it.

  • First, I shampooed my hair as usual. Then I rinsed out thoroughly.
  • Second, I dumped the vinegar on my hair straight from the bottle (making sure I left some vinegar for the onions later. Yum.) I didn’t even part the hair, nor did I dilute it in water; but hey, this was just me trying “lightening my hair with vinegar” for the first time, however way, to see if it’d even work before I invested time in doing the actual work.
  • Third, I left the vinegar on for FIVE minutes—not nearly close to the recommended 10-20 minutes—and rinsed it out when time was up.

Three things I learned: 1) Your hair does smell like something that’s been cooked in vinegar afterward; 2) The smells goes away; and 3) I should’ve done it in the sink, not in the shower. A friend could probably do this, too. By the way, avoid getting vinegar into your eyes…at all cost.

Anyway, that was only five minutes, so I am anticipating a stronger smell next time. That’s right, there will be a next time. In fact, I am trying this again tomorrow—the right way. I am really trying to find the best way to lighten my hair naturally, without chemicals if at all possible. All of these cancers and weird diseases are only boosting my paranoia.

So, what kind of results can you really expect from hardly five minutes of testing? Well, I could feel softness in my hair, and after blow-drying, it looked a little looser. As for the color, I thought the process didn’t work, but two days later my colleague asked, “Marcia, did you brighten your hair?” I thought, no way this thing worked! (I’m still baffled by that comment, it might’ve been a coincidence.) But apparently it did something to it—something that I personally couldn’t see.  It is a good sign though. And tomorrow I’ll try it with lemon juice. Stay tuned for results!

Have you ever tried vinegar as a clarifier? Did it work well for you?

Update: so in my search of a more natural way to dye my hair, I tried washing my hair with lemon juice. It basically just clarified my already honey-blonde-colored hair. I shampoo-ed, lemonized — leaving in for a couple of minutes — and then conditioned my hair. I could see a very slightly lighter shade, nothing else. It gets rid of dust and dirt buildup. Hence, lightening your faded shade. But it won’t change your hair color in any major way. Your scalp and hair feel very clean though!

Getting my hair to work

March 1, 2012 in Bad Hair Days, Tips and Stories

Oh no! I’ve completely abandoned this blog. Not intentionally, of course. I’ve just been waking up too early lately and it takes up all the energy I once had to write for hours on several blogs. But, FYI, the fact that I haven’t been writing about it doesn’t mean that my hair, the inspiration for this blog, has gotten manageable. No — it has its moments, but it can’t be tamed. I am still living in Spain (temporarily) since last time I wrote and I guess the change of weather, diet, air… and just the whole switch from one country to another affected the appearance and feel of it.

The first few months were very difficult for my curly hair; frizziness and the unavailability (or I should say lack of knowledge) of good products and hairdressers in the area to trim my hair has made it look deader than a doornail for almost five months. I have since bought a new hair dryer (yes, yet another one), FOUR blow-dry brushes, a great shampoo called Kérastase, a bunch of different conditioners (some of which I used to have back home) and even a curling iron — even though I despise them.

Unfortunately, I forgot to pack my Moroccan oil and have been too lazy to search for it here. Or maybe knowing that I will most likely not find it discourages me to even start the search. A few weeks back, when I was about to give up on my hair for the 1, 999th time, I visited some super stores and about five or six hair salons looking for a professional keratin treatment kit or any kind of hair relaxer that would do the job — I was that desperate. Not a single salon had it; they said I had to get it done at the salon because they couldn’t sell it to the public. Yeah right. With how everyone has screwed my hair before…I am not letting anyone touch this baby with chemicals again! (Unless he or she is some kind of supreme hair genius.) Seriously, I am done with that. I rather do it myself.

Anyhow, I kept searching even online and eventually found some kind of mild liquid keratin that, combined with the Kerastase shampoo, keeps my hair under control. I still haven’t found a hair dryer or product powerful enough to reduce the amount of time I spend blow-drying my hair though. Ugh.

I should mention that a health scare has forced me to take my vitamins uninterruptedly every day this time and I think it is helping in a lot of ways because my hair is finally slightly better. Speaking of vitamins, I came across this website the other day: it promotes going “shampoo free” for good. Guess I’m aware of the “risks” now, but personally I don’t think I can have a shampoo-less hair wash — though I like the idea of using vinegar from time to time. Check that website out; it’s full of useful information.

The search continues…